Building Trust and Strong Connections: 60+ Questions to Ask as a Manager
Good leaders understand that success goes beyond managing tasks and meeting targets. Building trust and strong relationships with team members is vital, not only for their professional development but also for their overall well-being.
One key aspect of cultivating psychological safety and trust is through the art of asking personal and social questions.
By going beyond the surface-level conversations and genuinely getting to know your team, we can build connections that lead to increased trust, engagement, and collaboration-and productivity!
Personal questions during the 1:1
How are you? (sounds simple but this can go a long way!)
How has your week been going?
How are you feeling lately?
What are your roses and thorns?
What are your roses, buds, and thorns?
How are you finding work-life balance lately?
Has anything exciting or noteworthy happened recently to you, outside of work?
Social questions in team meetings
What’s 1 thing you’re looking forward to?
What activities or hobbies do you enjoy outside of work?
What are you reading/watching/listening to?
What’s a book or movie you enjoyed recently, and why?
What was the last concert you attended?
If you could only bring 1 question to a desert island, what 1 song would you bring?
If you could only bring 1 question to a desert island, what 1 song would you bring?
Share one item from your bucket list.
Who is your all-time favorite band, music group, or performer?
If you were a city, which city would you choose and why?
If you could time travel, which era would you visit and why?
What's one thing on your desk or workspace that has special meaning to you
Share one interesting fact about yourself that most people don't know.
What's the best piece of advice you have ever received?
What are two things you would consider yourself to be good at / bad at?
Who is your hero? Why?
What do you consider your 'superpower'?
What do you value, more than anything else?
What do you tend to have a longer learning curve around, compared to others?
What’s your go-to recipe?
Do you have a secret hobby?
If you could go anywhere in the world right now, where would you go?
What do you value the most: time, recognition/status, or money?
What do people over or underestimate about you?
Have you ever won an award? If yes, for what?
What was the most agonizing hour of your life?
What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?
What hobbies did you enjoy when you were young, but no longer do?
What new hobby do you wish you could pick up now?
What was the best mistake you made that turned out really well?
If money were no object, where would you live?
What makes you nervous?
What trip was the most transformative for you in your life so far?
What was your first job?
What did you want to be when you were 10 years old?
If you could sit down with your 15-year-old self what would you tell them?
If you could enroll in a PhD program for free, what would you study?
Questions inspired by the NYT 36 questions to fall in love (yes you can ask some of these at work too!)
Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
Would you like to be famous? In what way?
What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
What do you value most in a friendship?
What is your most treasured memory?
What is your most terrible memory?
If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
Questions for the whole company
Share highlights, lolights, photos from your weekend! 🔥 TIP: schedule this every Monday morning in Slack.
Happy [holiday name]! How did you celebrate?
Share your current song on repeat. 🔥 TIP: create a playlist based on everybody’s picks.